Simply put, I’ve got no option but to send these back. XL is comparable to a women’s M. also, I taped up the shoe box since it was falling apart and then read the instructions that I had to put the box in another box, not putting the printed out taped on label to the box or I get a 10% "re-stocking" fee. • Gold plated 3. and having this belt has been absolutely fantastic. Very nice lightweight material BUT orser like 2 sizes up. They lift up a tiny bit when I walk, but they still stay secure on my feet, so you could wear these to a theme park or something and not worry about them sliding off at all. I’ve had this ear piece for only one weekend so far. Overall, I think this speaker is an excellent value. Totally wrong sizing and Im not going to play the "return it until you magically get the right" mens size!